As a girl you have the power to decide every 48 hours (every time the conversation locks) whether you want to "Keep Talking" "Meet Up" or "Flop". On the third lock you only have the options to "Meet Up" or "Flop". As a guy you will never be led on again. Its better to be Flopped on then to be led on. If you dont Flop then it looks like you got yourself a date :)